Saturday, 20 November 2010

Abigail's birthday, etc

The weeks just fly by. It doesn't seem very long since Deborah was born, yet she's already 5.5 weeks old! Our darling baby is quite a delightful little girl - she's beginning to smile and coo at us, which is always a wonderful development in a baby! :-) She continues to be perfect at nights - couldn't ask for a better baby. She does like to feed a fair bit in the evenings, but she is obviously stocking up for the night! Between 9 and 10pm she settles for the night and sleeps in her little rocking bed (carrycot) downstairs until I'm ready for bed. Then I carry her up, give her a dry nappy and a quick feed, and tuck her in beside me in bed, and that's it. For the first few weeks she was sleeping through solid until about 6-8am. But she seems to be waking for one feed in the night, somewhere around 4-5am. Of course, the wonderful thing about co-sleeping means I can near enough stay asleep through her feeds! :-) But in any case, a newborn only waking once max per night (since birth!) is pretty amazing.

This photo was also taken today, at 5.5 weeks old.


Clement "holding" Deborah yesterday. He's finally started saying her name this week and it's quite cute. Ever since she was born he has refused to admit what her name is - she was just "bay-beee". He's starting to say quite a few things these days and loves to sing. For a while his favourite thing to sing has been Psalm 100 (All people that on earth do dwell) and he probably knows all the words to it too! He likes someone else to sing along with him, but you can hear him starting the next word with the correct sound (not totally clearly spoken always) but he obviously has the words memorised even if he can't say them perfectly. He's the same with Psalms 23 and 121. Now he's also going around singing "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star", after enjoying looking at the stars in the sky! And he loves to sing his ABCs too - but seems to prefer the American "Zee" rather than "Zed" for the last letter of the alphabet! And it's *not* me who says "zee" to him either, I think he got it off Benjamin - or possibly they both got it from a Richard Scarry's ABC video! :-) Anyway, Clement is a very keen observer and follows me around the house watching *everything* I do and trying to copy everything. He'll soon know how to run the house himself! I can hardly peel a carrot without him finding his way into the kitchen to "help". And he also uses his observation skills to get up to mischief - and he's very, very quick! He'll often realise I'm at the computer and he'll go in the kitchen to "mess" with the baby, so I'll run to get Deborah, by which time he's ran back to my laptop to try and pull the keys off. Or he'll listen to hear if someone shuts the bathroom door after themselves. Or if he sees someone has gone out the front door and not locked it, he'll look out the front window to see if the gate is left open so he can attempt an escape, etc. Lots of fun - and the need for a few extra pairs of eyes, that's for sure! But he's always smiling and making us smile too - as he's been doing since he was about 3 weeks old! lol


The Benjamin - as cheeky as can be! I took this photo earlier today when I took him and Abigail out late afternoon with their scooters. He was in desperate need of getting rid of some energy, so I thought a bit of exercise might help! We just went round the pavements nearby before it got dark. Thankfully his eczema continues to be at bay (still using a tiny amount of a potent steroid every other day on his hand to keep it away). But he makes up for the eczema with plenty of challenging behaviour, which can be quite a challenge to deal with, and requires a huge amount of patience! Most days I feel like I spend about 80% of my mental energy (and nearly as much of my time) looking after him. It seems the best thing is to keep him occupied the whole time he's awake, mostly with something to keep his hands busy - though nothing is a perfect solution. One positive thing is that at last, he's potty trained!!!! :-) Between the eczema and other perhaps not so related "itching/scratching" issues, he's spent the last 2 years of his life in rather more secure clothing to most children, which made the idea of potty training seem impossible. But I was aware that it really needed to be done since he was 3.5 years old, just didn't have the energy at the time, being 39 weeks pregnant. But Benjamin told me he wanted to potty train, and told me that I was a silly mummy(!) for putting nappies on him, and that he should be wearing big boy pants (underpants). We went back and forth the first week or two, and I put disposable pants on him at first, because I couldn't really cope with puddles in the floor when I was about to give birth! lol Anyway, with pratice over the next few weeks, he mastered it all - and pretty much all at once too! And he's been fully dry days and nights for 2 weeks now - not an accident at all! So we're very pleased and thankful about that!


Abigail with her scooter earlier today - our big 5 year old daughter! Her birthday was Friday last week (12th), so plenty of photos from then below. She's really such a big help to me, not least in spending time with Clement and lovingly looking after him. They play together quite a lot - particularly with her toy kitchen, as Clement loves to have pretend tea parties with her. :) Anyway, whilst it can be a bit hectic having 4 children so young and close together, I have to say a child as young as 5 can be quite a help! This evening she was doing hoovering and dusting - she thought it was quite fun too - but probably this opinion will have changed by the time she's a few years older. lol

Here she is looking all grown up! :-)

Lots of pressies!


Beginning to open them


and again


A much wanted plush Hello Kitty


And a fleece blanket ... yep, she likes Hello Kitty! :-)


Princess birthday cake! I was happy with how it turned out, though I'm well aware of my lack of proper cake decorating skills! :-)


admiring her cake


Benjamin making himself a party hat out of a napkin!


Blowing out the candles


The children pretending to bake a cake one morning (before breakfast!).


Deborah was not quite 4 weeks old here - wearing a "fancy" cloth nappy made by Flutterby Fluff (a UK work-at-home-mum). A lovely, soft velour nappy which I won earlier this year in a competition for a nappy review I wrote.


Again, not quite 4 weeks old. Another nappy photo (yes, I like cloth nappies!). This time she's got a lovely nappy cover from Tots Bots (Glasgow based company), one of their new style wraps, which is really fantastic in all possible ways.



Me and my baby, 4.5 weeks old - attempting to take a self portrait in the mirror, so it's not very good quality.


Getting big - 5 weeks old!



Playing dress-up - Clement wearing Abigail's dressing up outfit that she got for her birthday



All in pink (and a bit of purple) - Abigail's idea for them to all wear pink! lol

Saturday, 6 November 2010

Busy days & organising bedrooms

Can she already be 3.5 weeks old?! This photo was taken yesterday. The days and weeks just fly by, always so much to do with 4 little people to look after! I think it was two Saturdays ago that I last blogged, so these photos are from the past two weeks. A few of the first ones below got uploaded to Facebook last week (so anyone who's on there will have already seen them), but the rest are only just off my camera.


Sleeping peacefully - 13 days old


again, 13 days old


A bright eyed Deborah (2 weeks old), and her cheeky brother Clement! :-)


Clement having a peek at his baby sister


Stretching! (15 days old)


Snuggled up next to mummy - 17 days old.


In a pretty pink dress! 2.5 weeks old


Benjamin and Deborah (nearly 3 weeks old)


And again. Benjamin requested that I take a photo of Deborah holding his finger, something he *really* likes her to do! :-)


"Look at my hair!" rather wild hair after a bath - 3 weeks old


As above, but with open eyes!


This week has found me trying to organise the children's bedrooms! Life gets a bit busier when you have 4 children, so I'm realising just how important it is for everything to have a place. It is especially important so children can actually know where things belong and be able to tidy up after themselves! Even 18 month old Clement can be quite useful when he knows where things go! :-) So here are some photos of my progress so far, which I actually took especially for my sister Leah - so she could see what I've been doing! ;-)

Abigail's bedroom! We've been buying lots of plastic boxes with lids lately - they're sooooo very useful! I still need to label these boxes, but at least Abigail finally has some storage space!


Her bed

Dolls and kitchen in Abigail's bedroom


Clement's "new" bedroom! We've been calling this room the "school room" since we moved here, but despite storing educational materials in here, I think it's more likely the children will do lessons at the dining room table! We put Clement's cot in here the day before Deborah was born, so he could have somewhere quiet to sleep should she be born at night (which she was). And he's been sleeping in there ever since, as I wasn't sure I wanted him to wake up every time she did. (As it happens, Deborah sleeps through the night from when I go to bed around midnight - every night since she was born, often not waking for a feed until 6-8am!! Well, occasionally she wakes around 4-5am, but that's usually if Clement has come through to our bed and she gets disturbed.) Anyway, it's worked out well for him to have a quiet place to sleep. So we moved his big bed in there and as seen in the photo below, he's quite happy with his room! :-)


Pleased with his new room!

Benjamin's bedroom! He originally had the train table in there, and then we put the matching beds in the room and the train table in the "school room". But Benjamin has never been happy with the idea of loosing his beloved train table to another room, so he's quite pleased to have it back. And since Clement thinks the best thing to do with a sleeping big brother is to crawl on top of him and try to wake him up, I don't think room sharing is a very good idea just yet! lol


Benjamin's bed - and yes, Deborah was helping me with the tidying! ;-)


This is a unit of shelves in the large walk-in closet in our bedroom. We bought the shelves and boxes together to store the boys' clothes in (as well as cloth nappies, etc). I have to say, I love these boxes - a lot more practical than chest of drawers - in my opinion, anyway! :-)

So, that's all I have time for now!

Saturday, 23 October 2010

Already 10 days old!!

This is just a quick photo post, without many words!

It's hard to believe Deborah is already 10 days old today!

The above photo was taken earlier today. Below are some photos of her since my last blog post.


Me and my girls! :-) Wearing Deborah in the Papoozle, 29 hours after she was born!


2 days old, wearing a lovely warm sleepsuit from her Aunty Leah!


5 days old



Sisters!



6 days old





In the Papoozle again - a frequent place for her!


And then, not to forget the other children! :-)

Abigail earlier this week - sometimes she likes to dress rather colourful!


The boys who are always up to something!

And below are some photos from September, which I never got round to posting!

Wearing coats when it was still meant to be summer!!!


Clement in Abigail's doll pram


Playing in buckets in the middle of the kitchen!



The diligent Clement, having a go at Benjamin's "schoolwork"


While Abigail decides that she's "too tired for lessons"


Brothers again!


Playing in the back garden


Clement who *loves* music and singing! :-)

Wednesday, 13 October 2010

Announcing the arrival of....

Deborah Anne, born at home at 4:30 am this morning (13th of October). She weighed 8lb 7.5oz and was 57cm (nearly 22.5 inches) long.

Here are a few photos of her first day:


First photo of her

Happy big sister and brothers (even if Benjamin wanted to put on an ugly face!)


A delighted Clement! :-) He's been in love with babies for months now - he spots them everywhere and in everything. So he was very excited to find a baby sister this morning! He's been going round the house all day with a massive grin on his face saying "bay-bee" - and he's amazingly gentle with her too.



Peter and Clement with Deborah




All cosy and sleeping!





After her first bath! :)
We are thankful that all went so well with her birth and that it happened at home (as planned), and at night, with all 3 of the children *asleep*!! We were quite impressed that Benjamin (who can be a very light sleeper) slept through everything in the room next to where she was born! I have to admit that I was very exhausted after 3 days of labour starting and stopping - even down to 3 hours of contractions every 10 minutes one morning. Tuesday evening it started again, but this time with even more painful ones, which lasted well over a minute, some about 1.5 minutes long. By 11:30 last night I was feeling this was the real thing, especially after I started getting chills and was shaking very badly (something I'd experienced in the past at the *end* of my labours). So we phoned the midwife and she said she'd come out shortly. She arrived soon after midnight and then the 2nd of the midwives arrived. They started getting everything organised. Despite having progressed quite a bit before the midwives arrived, it was still a further 4 hours before she was born! Perhaps if I hadn't been so tired out things would have moved along more quickly. The Entonox (gas & air) was very useful in helping me stay calm and helped with the breathing - can't imagine having been able to go through those hours without it! And my 3 midwives were brilliant - I felt relaxed and comfortable with them, which goes a long way. So in every possible way, it went really well and is a relief to have it over too!
Now, if only my lovely little girl would like to settle for sleep tonight! She's quite grumpy and windy just now and doesn't want to fall asleep! And having had less than 2 hours sleep last night (not falling asleep until 6am this morning) I'm rather shattered and would like nothing more than to go to sleep - especially as it's nearly midnight!